If you aren't growing in Christ like you know you should be and if you don't possess true freedom and life to the full in Christ, one road block very well could be the place and people you call "church".
A Shocking Prophecy from A.W. Tozer
If Tozer were alive today, He would see that indeed his prophecy is coming true. It is currently estimated that one million people per year are leaving the institution of the "church". Even George Barna, the man who knows more about the condition of the world-wide church than anyone, has also left the institution we call the "church". What does that tell you?
A recent email I received from a subscriber:
Dear Michael, I would like your opinion on something I am struggling with. I know ultimately that this is between me and God but any insight would be appreciated. I have this persistent feeling that I should go back to the church I was attending previously. I have been searching for a church for a long time with not much luck. I left my previous church because I wasn't learning anything and it only has a Sunday service, no prayer meetings or discipleship. Basically, I feel it's a dead church and I wanted more for me and my children. Would God want me to stay there? I see the watered down doctrine and the sin there. My mind cannot perceive why I should go back but I certainly don't want to rely on my own understanding and be disobedient. I have struggled with this for a while and cannot seen to be at peace about it. Any thoughts? Thank you and God bless.
The New Testament mentions one time about not forgetting to meet together (Heb 10:25). And yet, today's preachers are preaching the "no man is an island" message as if it's the only wing on the bird. It's because they are losing customers every year and they are panicked. Those buildings are expensive to maintain and those salaries add up quickly each month. If the customers go, so does the salary. Their message is out of balance and I believe so is their motivation.
They completely disregard the much higher number of also writtens at the bottom of this post, which say there will be terrible times in the last days, which we are actually in (the early church was NOT), and the good reasons to separate.
I last stepped foot in the charismatic church that I was regularly attending over two and a half years ago. Previous to being introduced to that church, I was already in a season of intense study of the Word of God and learning to seek Him with all of my heart. I was growing at an amazing pace as the Lord just kept opening my eyes more and more and teaching me the deep truth's of His word. As the Father opened my eyes more and more, I began to see that in spite of claiming to have the corner on the "Spirit filled Life", the people in the church were not at all living the same way the Lord was telling me to live, and as the Bible very clearly commands. And yet, the whole church was filled with people speaking in tongues, giving "words of knowledge", being "slain in the spirit", focused on healing, and chasing the supernatural. I became very confused.
As people got close to me and opened up to me, I would see the deception, the compromise, and the sin they were living in. Over time, I confronted eight different people on issues ranging from having seances, drunkenness, inappropriate gossip, falsely prophesying, complete life discontentment, unequally yoked relationships, coarse joking, listening to false prophets, blatant unforgiveness, love of money, etc. Out of the eight people I confronted, not one of them had ears to hear the truth. Each one had a different justification for the sin they were living in. A few accused me of being too radical, too serious, or just too legalistic. Others simply turned against me.
I became so upset about what I was seeing that I would even cry in frustration over it. "How can people worship you on Sunday morning like this Lord, claim to love you, cry crocodile tears during worship service, and then live like the heathens in the world?" Finally I said, "Father, I can't do this anymore." As I prayed about the church and what to do, the Father directed me to Luke 11:11. "Which of you Father's, if his son asks for a fish, would give him a snake?" I wanted to give the pastor the courtesy of letting him know of what I experienced and that it was wide spread and serious.
Here's my email to my former pastor:
Dear Pastor, there's no easy way to explain all that has transpired in my walk of late, so I won't. But the reason I'm leaving the church can best be summarized by this. For months I began seeing things in the lives of others, in the church, who claim to be true "Spirit Filled" followers of Christ and yet who had chronic areas of rebellion or sin or deceit.
Every church has hypocrites and lukewarm believers, but of the groups I was in, it became overwhelming to see. As you know, when I stumbled into a sin, I cried for 3 days in brokenness because I dishonored The Lord in that one moment. Hate for blatant sin burns in me, and I am not able to live like that. I am not able to live in rebellion or disobedience to God.
When these people came to me, I presented the truth of Scripture to them and admonished them to obey the truth. None of them wanted to hear it. Two of them even ran to you to get a second opinion on my rebuke.
I was so confused on how the people that claim to have the corner on the "Spirit filled" life can continue to sit in church week after week, and live outside the will of God, all the while thinking they are saved. That is not the true Gospel that I see in the Scripture at all. I don't see the "new creations" in seasoned believers of MANY years. Something is terribly wrong pastor!
After reading and studying for over 100 hours on this subject now, I have a much better understanding of the doctrine of the Charismatic church and I do not agree with it.
I'm deeply concerned about the drastic separation I see between faith and faithfulness in so many in the church and I hope you'll give this some serious consideration.
Bless you Pastor!
It was hard to work up the courage to leave because I had become the connecting point for a good number of people, and I had even been connected to leadership. But, I made the leap and left immediately, sticking to my convictions, and keeping my conscience clear before God and man. I genuinely loved and enjoyed knowing some of these people and so for several weeks it felt like I had been through a spiritual divorce. My pastor never even replied to my email and after seeing a friend of mine a few weeks later, he said, "Michael is not only wrong, he is dead wrong."
I somewhat expected a response like that. What I didn't expect was the REVIVAL that happened in my heart afterwards. The Lord indeed rewarded my obedience big time, by pouring out his grace into my heart and life in extraordinary ways. He knew that what I did was difficult and He was gracious to encourage me for doing the right thing.
I have not belonged to a "church" since, but I am very much a part of the true body of Christ (Luke 8:21, 1 John 3:6-10). My church family now spans all over the globe, and the Lord has done so much that there's no way I could even tell it all to someone. Paul used letters to connect to his family, and I use voice recordings and email.
On January 25th 2015, the Lord inspired me with the idea to start making personal "sermons" for people that contact me in their brokenness. Before each recording, I pray and ask the Lord to give me bread from heaven for this child of His. The results have often been amazing to them and to me! As of today, I have now passed 650 personal recordings to people all around the world.
The email testimonials of lives changing are sometimes so wonderful that they make me cry with joy and praise to our Father! Here is one from a sister in South Africa, just two days ago. She was living in extremely difficult darkness when she first contacted me many months ago. She was suicidal on an every other day basis.
Many people are actually surrendering their entire life to Christ, quitting ungodly jobs, leaving bad relationships, waiting on marriage for God's best, stopping their addictions, humbling themselves, forgiving others, forgiving themselves, getting free, and most importantly taking the John 7:17 Challenge to become a true disciple of Christ.
One subscriber and beloved new brother, Jared Taibi, was so impacted by Christ through the Challenge that he has already purchased 20 other books to give away. Have I even mentioned the most amazing person I have ever met in my entire life, my AMAZING WIFE Persis??? WOW!!!
Recently, I joked with Persis telling her that I think maybe God has made me a stumbling block to legalistic, deceived, and compromising Christians. I don't fit the mold for someone living the blessed life in America. I'm a divorced, remarried, non-tithing, non-denominational, non-Sabbath keeping, non-tongue speaking, non-church attending man who absolutely believes I can indeed lose my salvation if I do not endure in faith all the way to the end. These things already made me an odd ball at most churches. However, when I left the church it would get even worse because God began to open my blind eyes to the great errors I was believing simply because everyone else believed them.
And what is the result of all these radical and strange facets of my Christianity? A tree is known by its fruit. I regularly have days where I feel I'll have a spiritual heart attack if my Father blesses me any more. The more "radical" my thinking has become, the closer the Lord has come to me. Oh, and so has the devil.
One Example of Serious Error in the Church:
According to many rock star pastors in the contemporary church today, I should be under a curse for robbing God of his tithe, but I'm not any more confused about why I'm not under a curse for not tithing, than I am for why I'm not dead for not observing many, many, Sabbaths (Exo 31:14). The answer is crystal clear. I'm not dead and I'm not cursed because I'm not under the Old Covenant Law.
I haven't tithed in over a decade because I'm not confused about the Old and New Covenants anymore. I'm not confused when I hear Jesus speaking about tithing to Jews who were still under the Old Covenant Law in Mat 23:23. I'm not confused about what it means to follow the command to be a cheerful giver who no longer gives under compulsion (like a required 10% tithe) 2 Cor 9:7. I'm not confused about why tithing is not mentioned anywhere in the New Covenant except in reference to the Jews who were under the Law and Levitical Priesthood (Heb 7:5).
When you hear a pastor teaching on the principle of tithing and then he tells you stories of how each time he gave away his house, God gave him a better one, and then how God even gave him a plane, etc. Does that kind of preaching make you want more of Jesus or more money?Does it make you look forward to your heavenly destination and rewards or does it make you focus on having your best life and rewards here and now?
Can you imagine homeless Jesus, broke Peter, in jail Paul or exiled John preaching that enticing sort of message? Does that message help you to overcome sin, materialism, love of the world and money? Does it reconcile with Jesus' teachings to store up treasures in heaven or a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions? Does that message help you to be content with what you have (Heb 13:5) or is it possible that you feel a bit of enticement when you hear that message? Are you still under the impression that godliness in the New Covenant leads to you having more money and material possessions?
On the other hand, think about how afraid some people might be to stop tithing for fear of being under a curse. That's compulsion, and that has nothing to do with the cheerful giving (2 Cor 9:7) under the New Covenant. The curse you may in fact find yourself under is the curse of being put back under the law by a money loving preacher, not the curse for not paying your tithe (Gal 3:10). If you put yourself back under the law, you are under a curse.
The tithe was for the Levites (the priests) and there are no more Levites since Jesus Christ has become our high priest (Heb 6:20). The majority of Christians want to pay their tithe so God will give them more money. That is what their trust is really in, which is the essence of loving money.
I'm not confused about the fact that in the New Covenant our riches and blessings are primarily internal prosperity not external prosperity. I understand why Jesus had no place to lay his head and why Paul explains we will be content if we just have food and clothing because we brought nothing into this world and we can take nothing out it. This is why we are admonished to keep our lives free from the love of money in Heb 13:5, because it's God's number one competitor for our heart and He has promised never will he leave us forsake us.
How can you truly find the blessed life if you are sitting in a church where the pastor is keeping you still under the Old Covenant because the salaries and light bill depends on it? If you love money, God will never let you see the truth about what I am saying. Read Matthew 6:22-23 very slowly and then take a notice of the two subjects he squeezed this little passage in between. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you the implications of that teaching. Jesus' first warning about the end times was not about famine or earthquakes but rather, "See that no one deceives you."
Did you know that the New Covenant is about giving much more than 10% and even up to everything you own. (Mark 10:21) Have you ever read Acts 2:45 and wondered why that sounds so completely radical and unrealistic in American Christianity? Because we love money and we want our good life now, and so do the churches with all their salaries and $9,000/mo. light bills. The church today has given us permission to love money, because they need it so badly. Tithing is OLD COVENANT, but it works like a charm to keep you putting your money in that till. The old, "You're broke and cursed because you're robbing God of the tithe" line still has power from the pulpit, but not for those whose eyes have been opened. You absolutely should give to others, but never out of obligation.
What if when the Father and Son look down at the pastor and church you love so much, they see nothing but compromise and you are embracing it? What if your pastor always stops just short of bringing the full word of God, which is distorting the truth? What if he always seems to back off from preaching the hard messages of sin, unforgiveness, hell, obedience, faithfulness, purity of heart, victory over sin, holiness, etc.? Does Jesus then look at the throne and say, "Father, did you notice that pastor "so and so" almost preached the full truth of our word today? He's getting closer each week.
What if the people that have been going to your church for years are all lukewarm, disobedient, half-hearted, money-loving, entertainment worshiping, compromising Christians? What if behind the smiley faces on Sunday and Wednesday, the people in the congregation aren't growing, aren't holy, aren't faithful, aren't obedient, aren't separated from the world, aren't living in the fear of God?
What if what you call a good church, a good pastor, a good fellowship group, a good bible study, or a good Christian, isn't what the Father calls it? Then you will have enmity between you and Him. God is gracious and He makes room for our ignorance for a time, but the time will come when He sees we are knowingly choosing to rebel against His truth. You will know your tree by it's fruit. If you are at enmity with the Father, you will not have the rest, contentment, freedom from sin, peace, answered prayers or joy that Jesus our Lord promised.
The Call to Separate from the Foolish and Disobedient
Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. (Psa 1:1)
LORD, who may dwell in your sanctuary? Who may live on your holy hill? He whose walk is blameless and who does what is righteous, who speaks the truth from his heart and has no slander on his tongue, who does his neighbor no wrong and casts no slur on his fellowman, who despises a vile man but honors those who fear the LORD, who keeps his oath even when it hurts, (Psa 15:1-4)
I do not sit with deceitful men, nor do I consort with hypocrites; I abhor the assembly of evildoers and refuse to sit with the wicked. (Psa 26:4-5)
He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm. (Pro 13:20)
Stay away from a foolish man, for you will not find knowledge on his lips. (Pro 14:7)
A hot-tempered man must pay the penalty; if you rescue him, you will have to do it again.
Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended. (Pro 22:10 )
Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared. (Pro 22:24-25)
Do not speak to a fool, for he will scorn the wisdom of your words. (Pro 23:9)
Men of perverse heart shall be far from me; I will have nothing to do with evil. (Psa 101:4)
No one who practices deceit will dwell in my house; no one who speaks falsely will stand in my presence. Every morning I will put to silence all the wicked in the land; I will cut off every evildoer from the city of the LORD. (Psa 101:7-8)
I hate double-minded men, but I love your law. Away from me, you evildoers, that I may keep the commands of my God! You reject all who stray from your decrees, for their deceitfulness is in vain. (Psa 119:113,115,118)
But when you enter a town and are not welcomed, go into its streets and say, "Even the dust of your town that sticks to our feet we wipe off against you. Yet be sure of this: The kingdom of God is near.' I tell you, it will be more bearable on that day for Sodom than for that town. (Luk 10:10-12)
"Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces. (Mat 7:6)
I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves. "Be on your guard against men; they will hand you over to the local councils and flog you in their synagogues. (Mat 10:16-17)
"Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn "'a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law— a man's enemies will be the members of his own household.' "Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. (Mat 10:34-38)
When you are persecuted in one place, flee to another. (Mat 10:23)
"If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector. (Mat 18:15-17)
Now while he was in Jerusalem at the Passover Feast, many people saw the miraculous signs he was doing and believed in his name. But Jesus would not entrust himself to them, for he knew all men. He did not need man's testimony about man, for he knew what was in a man. (Joh 2:23-25)
When the Jews saw the crowds, they were filled with jealousy and talked abusively against what Paul was saying. Then Paul and Barnabas answered them boldly: "We had to speak the word of God to you first. Since you reject it and do not consider yourselves worthy of eternal life, we now turn to the Gentiles. (Act 13:45-46)
But some of them became obstinate; they refused to believe and publicly maligned the Way. So Paul LEFT THEM. He took the disciples with him and had discussions daily in the lecture hall of Tyrannus. (Act 19:9)
Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them. (Rom 1:32)
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. (Rom 12:9)
I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. (Rom 16:17)
But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked man from among you." (1Cor 5:11-13)
Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character." (1 Cor 15:33)
Note: In the next verse, remember that "unbelievers" are not just people who say they don't believe in Jesus. They are also "Christians" who deny the Lord by walking in darkness and disobedience, those who do not obey his words. (See Mat 7:21-27, Luke 6:46, John 8:51, 2 Tim 2:19, 1 John 1:6, 1 John 2:4, Titus 1:16) This should be pretty obvious after reading the rest of these verses.
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people." "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you." (2Co 6:14-17)
But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a man is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them. (Eph 5:3-7)
Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: "Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you." (Eph 5:11-14)
Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil. (1Th 5:21-22)
And pray that we may be delivered from wicked and evil men, for not everyone has faith. But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen and protect you from the evil one. (2Th 3:2-3)
But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them. (2Ti 3:1-5)
Alexander the metalworker did me a great deal of harm. The Lord will repay him for what he has done. You too should be on your guard against him, because he strongly opposed our message. (2Ti 4:14-15)
To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good. (Tit 1:15-16)
Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned. (Tit 3:10-11)
But about the Son he says, "Your throne, O God, will last for ever and ever, and righteousness will be the scepter of your kingdom. You have loved righteousness and HATED WICKEDNESS; therefore God, your God, has set you above your companions by anointing you with the oil of joy." (Heb 1:8-9)